Random Thoughts.....

What is in the name? This question is incomplete without knowing the meaning of the word ‘name’. As define in an English dictionary, name is a language unit by which a person or thing is known. As a result of the curiosity of human nature, we assembled some symbols or group of characters to say identify a thing or a person and we named it: a ‘name’.

It is difficult to understand the platform on which we decide someone’s religion, identity and race. I would be amazed if God thinks alike us. He created Universe, for all. He created Sun, planets, rivers, air, for everyone and He also blessed human being with conscious to divide His blessings and create new race, new religion, new caste, and new identity…..with new name.

Some questions are mystery and some are history. Who decides what religion I am from? How can someone mark me Muslim if my name contains characters from holy Quran but I born as Hindu? What I would be called, a Muslim or a Hindu? When God created the love, tenderness He decides to create human. Human, the ultimate masterpiece ever made by the Almighty or God. The same human further created religions, race, castes, and differences among each other and moreover he decides to divide the God according to his own comfort zone.

What reason stops me to call myself the citizen of this universe, the citizen of this planet, the citizen of humanity.  For what reason, I tend to differentiate among the things that look like me. Why I have been criticized for being someone from some particular religion if something goes wrong. I never asked God to make me Hindu, Muslim or of any religion but to be a good human of one religion- Humanity.

Solo Step.....

Every journey begins with a small step, a solo step….

At that time I was unaware how to put my step forward,

That time father held my hand tightly and ensured me the safety and assurance….

I think…today I am looking for that same safety and assurance before I put my step forward…my solo step.

As I grew up, life served challenges and difficulties in my platter.

To test my abilities of rising above the challenges, life threw me in tough situations,

When I came out as a winner, I felt that my father was holding my hand with a smile...…..

I think….today I am seeking the same care with smile before I put my step forward…my solo step.

I still remember the hardships during my academics…

Those sleepless nights and studying hard….just to make someone proud…

Someone who picked me whenever I fell…someone who protects me from hell….

I think….today I am searching the same protection before I put my step forward…my solo step.

Today I am walking on the road of life….

Where challenges and difficulties are doing their best to scare me and throw me away…

But having faith which was planted by my father in me, a belief to overcome the difficulties and be the winner….

Asking him to guide me….I am putting my step forward….my solo step…….

a Continuous Journey....

It was a time when I took my very first step forward, my Father held me so that I do not fall. That first step of my life was filled with lot of courage, anxiety and excitement but as I grew up the level of courage, anxiety and excitement fluctuates and got affected with my surroundings. In the course of journey of life, the starting point was static whereas the destination point became dynamic. In that journey, sometimes I feel to stop and rest but then a phrase- “miles to go before I sleep” from a well-known philosopher comes to my mind and gives me a sign of moving forward with a hope to reach my destination within this life-time.

The moment I started this journey, I was not aware of the happenings that would occur…happenings: some good some bad. I thank to both good and bad happenings for their occurrence which gives me a strong reason to be in the course and moving forward in the journey of life. Due to the human tendency, I also felt down when something bad happened with me, which I never expected to happen at that particular time. That one bad thing put me down to rise again.

I took so many steps till now and will take so many in rest of my life. My concern will be taking them forward and not backward because one backward step will halt my journey of life, will halt my reaching time to my destination for some time. I shall be strong and bold enough to take each and every step despite of the fear, anxiety of failure gifted to me by destiny or this world.

Because at the end of the day, if I succeed or failed, what matter to me is how I walked, what steps I took to cross another milestone, which reads that I am one step more closer to my destination………the journey still continues……….

A Promise to keep .........

I was born with destiny; I was born with fate,

I have been told and learn to love and not to hate.

I have been through ups and down,

I have been through light and darkness,,

But nothing dares to afraid me; no one dares to suppress me.

Lord blessed me with wings, wings to fly,

Rise above the dark clouds, whenever it rains, I fly

Fly above the darkness, an attempt to rise above the sky.

I tried and sometimes I succeed to rise above,

An Angel told me to be strong, to be bold not to shed tears.

Angel promised me if I would be strong, I would be free from all fears.

With that will the darkness will turn to bright shine,

The weakness will turn into strength.

I am keeping the promise of Angel,

In every situation, in every fear,

I never shed tear, I felt no fear,

Because I know my Angel is with me, my Angel is near.

A feeling of change...

It is strange, a feeling of writing but without pen, a feeling of flying but without wings, a feeling of saying but without words, a feeling to feel but without thinking, it is strange.

It is strange to find the truth that ‘change is the rule of nature’, anything that exist change it shape or feature, then why this change is not applicable to the society where the huge difference in living standard reflects on the face of helpless human.

How should I feel on looking at six year old begging for appetite of one time?

How should I feel to see the tears in the eyes of old people that strike in the heart and ask is there anyone for them, to take care of them?

How should I feel when I look in the mirror and ask myself what change I can make today to make society around me better?

Sometimes we ignore such questions because it is not directly affecting us. But somewhere it is affecting us as we are the part of the society. It is not possible to measure the depth of ocean if we afraid to dive into. The age of a tree is counted with roots and not with bunches.

We can make change if we think that we can. Somewhere with our small efforts we can make change. Instead of giving penny to six year old kid who is begging for food, we give him food. Instead of looking back to the helpless eyes we can help them and let them realise that they are not alone the whole world is with them. We might find answer to the mirror that yes we can make change for the betterment of the society.

Hope for the Sunshine in Darkness..

Hope for the Sunshine in Darkness.

We born with several qualities that are inherit from mother-father. Face outlook, colour complexion, features.. but there are few things that we did not inherit from anyone but ourselves. Destiny, will, power.. to name few.

As we gradually grow up these intangible features tend to gain their heights and lows. During the period of life, a person been through lots of colours that destiny reserved for him but at the end of the day it all depends on that person how he like to see his picture. It is like an art, we have place to draw and colours and it all depends on us how what we like to draw and what colours we like to put into.

Hope is some extraordinary spiritual grace that God gives us to control our fears, not to oust them.

It is not necessary that every picture is perfect and up to our satisfaction. While colouring the picture we all have an idea how the picture will look like and a HOPE that at the end the picture will be colourful as we want.

Once you choose hope, anything's possible.

If we not lose hope to create a masterpiece, the God, who creates, preserve and destroy, allow us to create and give power and strength to preserve that picture through out our lifetime. The only point demanded by the destiny is “NEVER LOSE HOPE”.

Long...............Distance

My last blog was last year.. This year, I tried to hold on my thoughts and keypad to write something for my blog in this new year.. but no success... while I am writing, I have no idea, what I am going to write in next sentence...

There are many words in relationship that start with letter 'L'. To name few, Love, Lust, Long-Distance relation... these three terms are interconnected somehow, but better to take Lust out of this.. It is hard to maintain a relation if it is in long distance. Mother-Father/Son, Husband/wife, Lovers, or any other relation, if having love/respect for relation and on the distant location, they are the victim of long distance relation. I will not categorised Long distance relation as bad or worse condition in any relation because during that period of time, the value of relation comes out. The outcome will be trust and understanding between two identities tested under every circumstance.

In case of Love couple, a long distance between them gives enough time to understand each other. Even they are together in thoughts, together through communication means but physical distance test the patience and help to build strong bond in their relationship. Trust plays major role in such relations. Trust convince and remove the dark clouds of doubt and suspicion.

It is important to build trust and understanding before building any relation. It will give strength to relation and remove the hurdles on the way of long distance relationship...

Have a happy long distance relation.... :)